Tips for your not so 'little ones' when starting Secondary School!

If your little ones are nervous about moving up to 'big school', Bucks Council have issued a number of tips to help them out, they can be found here...

MOVE UP DAYS

Go along to your new schools move up day, these take place at the beginning of July each year. This may be one day, but many schools offer two or more days along with summer holiday activities.

This will be the first time that you meet your new class and new teachers and explore the school.

Move up days are a good time to make new friends who you can talk to or meet during the summer holidays.

PLAN HOW TO GET THERE

Being ready for how you're going to get to your new school can help you to feel more confident.

If your parent or carer is taking you, or you will use school transport, plan what you need to do to be ready on time.

If you are walking to school, make sure you know the way and practice the route during your summer holidays. Then you will know how long it will take you to get there and know what time to leave in the mornings.

PREPARE WHAT YOU'LL NEED

It can take time to adjust when you start at a new school. There are lots of things you can do to make sure you are ready:

• ask if there is a map of the school so that you can find your way around
• find out what you need to take like pens, pencils, calculator, laptop, or sports equipment.
• make a note of your lesson timetable.
• write down your homework and when it's due so you don't forget.

Your new school might have different rules or expectations. If you're you are ever not sure, ask a teacher or someone you trust for help.

ASK QUESTIONS

It can be scary when you don't know who to talk to at school if you're worried. Your teachers are there to help, but you can also ask the reception staff or the school nurse if you need support.

Some schools have pupils, sometimes called buddies, who are there to support you. If you don't feel comfortable asking for support at school, you can speak to your parents or carers or an adult you trust.

MAKING NEW FRIENDS

It's natural to feel scared about making new friends. Even if you’ve got lots of friends going to the same school as you.

Remember:

• it's scary going up to someone new but you'll gain more confidence
• it's good to smile
• if someone's friendly to you, try to be friendly back
• it can take time to make friends
• don't be hard on yourself if you freeze up - you can always try another time.

There are things to make things easier:

• lookout for other young people who have similar interests and hobbies as you
• use positive body language; smile, speak clearly, look people in the eye
• ask questions to start a conversation to find out about the other person, for example, favourite music or games, TV show or films
• say something nice, it can feel great getting a compliment
• join a club either inside or outside of school
• volunteer

RESOURCES THAT MAY HELP

Your primary school or new secondary school should give you more information either before or on move-up day.

There are many online resources that can help. Here are a few that we suggest:

• BBC Bitesize- get the lowdown from Mr Burton and other young people
• Young Minds - finding your feet: transitioning to secondary school films and resources
• Anna Freud Centre - a film on moving up to secondary school
• Learning Disabilities - the move from primary to secondary can be difficult for young people with learning disabilities or special educational needs (SEN). Information can be downloaded in easy read format
• Mental Health Organisation - top tips for young people, in an easy read document (PDF 2430 KB)